So excuse me while I get a little verklempt.
It happens to me every year, around May, you know … graduation. Every year, another set of students in whom I’ve invested for four years whatever knowledge I have to share, whatever words of wisdom I have to offer, and whatever encouragement I have to pour out on them — every year, another batch of them leaves. I wrote about this feeling back in 2015, about my annual heartache, and it has followed me every year since then.
Seriously, it feels like it did when I had to let my kids go. We parents know what it’s like to launch our children. To watch them drive away to that new job, or to hand them off in marriage, or to stand by and hold our breath as they learn the joys and frustrations of adulting.
I know these aren’t my kids, but they have definitely become a part of my life and the letting go still hurts my heart.
But here’s the deal. These folks are really special to me. They entered the Professional Writing program just as I was taking it over in the wake of some unexpected changes. They stuck with me. They offered thoughts and advice and encouragement as we worked to update the program to better prepare them (and future ProWrites) to successfully leave college and enter the work force.
And here’s another deal: They’re doing it! Four of them already have jobs in their field! I mean, job jobs. Jobs they have trained for. One of them is going on to graduate school for an MFA. The others are in interview processes that will land them shortly, I have no doubt.
They are ready.
I’m happy, I’m sad. I’m letting them go knowing that indeed that’s what I’m here for. To bring them in, train them as best I can, and send them on their way to whatever God has for them.
Seriously. I have the best job in the world.
Blessings to you Ellie, Kipp, Zach, Grant, Tarah, Alyssa, Katie, Lindsey. Go with God.
4 thoughts on “Proud of my grads”
Linda, I love that you care about your students so much, and miss them when they graduate. I can promise you this – they will never, ever forget you. I still recall with great fondness the college profs who made the biggest impact on my life, and I graduated 47 years ago. I am experiencing some of those same feelings here in Norway after saying goodbye to our church family yesterday. We’ve only known most of them for 10 weeks, but our lives have been so enriched by these relationships. Your students will always be “your kids”!
Good-byes are hard. Prayers for you as you return. And I purchased your latest book–Amazon review to come! I can’t wait to read it.
Linda, your students are definitely ready! You made such a great impact on their lives.
Very meaningful post.
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